She Bop proudly hosts a rotation of the best sex educators.
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Eli Sheff
With more than 30 years researching consensual nonmonogamies, Dr. Eli Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children. Dr. Eli has a PhD in sociology and is a Certified Sexuality Educator who has written four books and 30+ academic articles on nonmonogamies and BDSM/kinky sex. She serves as a relationship coach, educator, and expert witness. Nonmonogamy is certainly not for everyone, and Dr. Eli can help people understand how it can work and why, and when it is a bad idea. She has appeared on hundreds of podcasts, television shows, and media interviews with outlets from NPR, National Geographic, and the New York Times to Cosmopolitan and Savage Love. Dr. Eli blogs for Psychology Today and always wants to make friends with dogs.
Jessie Fresh
Jessie became a sex coach as a result of her frustration with her sex life and her search to have more hot, steamy, fulfilling sex. She is a licensed Sexuality & Intimacy Coach; in her private practice she specializes in guiding people to have mind-blowing sex. Jessie delivers results with her light-hearted but tender and humorous style and her education in Psychology, Communication, mindfulness, and the Erotic Blueprints™.
Dirty Lola
Dirty Lola is an award-winning sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. Known for her live sex ed, Q&A show Sex Ed A Go-Go, and as a Sexpert on the Emmy-nominated Netflix docuseries The Principles of Pleasure, Lola has spent over a decade working to end the stigma and shame surrounding sex and sexuality. Having started her journey sharing personal discoveries with polyamory and kink online, Lola now uses her knowledge, warm candor, and public platforms to teach the masses in person and rapt Internet and television audiences.
Luna Matatas
Luna Matatas is a Sex and Pleasure Educator with over 15 years of experience teaching sex and empowerment workshops. She celebrates body confidence, self-adoration and building shame-free pleasure in and out of the bedroom. She teaches a wide range of topics; including threesomes, BDSM and sexual confidence. Luna hosts The Plug Podcast, an anal sex podcast by b-Vibe. She created Peg the Patriarchy® and Meditate Medicate Masturbate® brands as part of her sex-positive and feminist merchandise.
Jess DeVries
Jess DeVries (aka Beloved Coaching) is a queer somatic sex coach, sexological bodyworker and grief worker. She primarily serves the queer/trans community supporting folks toward self-sovereignty and to inspire curiosity about pleasure and sexual expression, including expanding possibilities of what sex can be and guiding folks to define and pursue pleasure on their own terms. She is a grief advocate who regularly facilitates spaces for people to grieve, inviting the wisdom of the body to guide the grief process. She understands that there is a deep kinship between pleasure and grief and believes that they both deserve to be tended as full experiences of our humanity. Jess teaches Core Erotic Theme: Discover Your Personal Erotic Makeup and Coming Home to Pleasure at She Bop. She also facilitates workshops and grief circles online for queer folks, ex-Christians, and Covid conscious communities. She works 1:1 with folks online in the realms of pleasure, grief, gender, and eroticism.
Amory Jane
Amory Jane (she/they) is a sex educator, coach, parent, and licensed psychedelic facilitator. She has taught hundreds of workshops across the country on intimacy, pleasure, communication, and kink and has been featured in Playboy, BBC, Fusion TV, and numerous podcasts and publications. She is also the muse behind Amory.Design, a small company specializing in handcrafted wooden furniture for discreet sex toy storage. AJ is a trailblazer in psilocybin-assisted therapy, offering legal magic mushroom journeys for individuals and couples, as well as curated events in Oregon to support personal growth, connection, and transformation. Through She Bop, she teaches lively, idea-filled workshops on fellatio, group sex, sensation play, and the intersection of altered states and pleasure. Her classes blend education, humor, and a strong emphasis on exploration and communication.
Lilithfoxx
Lilithfoxx (she/her) is a BIPOC, queer, neurodivergent, kinky, and polyamorous marketing professional turned Board-certified sexologist, AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator, professional speaker, coach, and consultant. She is a graduate of the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University’s Human Sexuality Intensive program and is certified by Johns Hopkins University in psychological first aid. Her work focuses on the intersectionality of marginalized identities, alternative sexuality, and social justice. She provides BDSM and nonmonogamy cultural competency consulting for clinical, academic, and research settings and facilitates workshops on sexuality justice and inclusion. She also teaches classes on kink, nonmonogamy, and sexual communication, with a focus on accessibility and pleasure. Her expertise has been featured in many publications, including Cosmopolitan, Glamour, HuffPost, Kinkly, GQ, Men's Health, Playboy, and LiveJasmin's Life in Red docu-series.
Stella Harris
Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, sex coach, and author. You may have seen her perform at storytelling events, heard her on a podcast, or read one of her articles or books. She’s been offering sex, kink, and relationship workshops for more than a decade! Stella’s wide-ranging expertise has led to being featured on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools, being sent with a press pass to a strip club to report on Stormy Daniels, appearing as an expert witness in court, and even speaking as an authority on banana slug mating habits. Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes. Her short stories have appeared in numerous anthologies including Best Women’s Erotica and The Big Book of Bondage. Stella teaches classes for She Bop that focus on the topics of her books, plus many other subjects including: exploring bisexuality, queer safer sex, pleasure anatomy, and kink & BDSM.